’90 Day Fiancé’ Tell All Part 3 Recap: Is Mido Leaving Debby?

90 Day Fiancé Season 12 has officially come to an end with the final installment of the three-part Tell All that revealed what’s next for all seven of the season’s couples.

The Tell All Part 3 picked up with Marissa and Edward having an emotional conversation about having kids in the future. While Marissa has made it clear that she is done having children after giving birth to her two sons during her first marriage, it is Edward’s dream to have children. Later, Paula and Thomas, Debby and Mido, and Ashia and Maxwell took the hot seat, revealing shocking updates on all of their relationships and immigration journeys. Scroll for a full recap of the 90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Tell All Part 3.

Edward and Marissa decided to have a baby

After Debby talked about the joy and healing power of having kids, Marissa broke down in tears, telling Edward, “I feel like I’m just robbing you of that opportunity.” Despite having said before that she did not want more kids, Marissa told her husband, “That surge of emotion that I just had, like, makes me even want to consider this whole thing more. I’m sitting on stage thinking like, maybe I should get off birth control.” Edward replied, “You make me, I feel, the most happy person in the world, just to say that.”

Ultimately, Marissa decided to explore their options. “I think that when we get home, we should look into the options. I think we should see how much it really costs to have a surrogate or maybe set a timeline.”

Paula spent months in Brazil after getting her green card

During Paula and Thomas’ segment, Thomas revealed that Paula spent months in Brazil after she received her green card, leaving him to return to America on his own. Thomas revealed, “The first day I got [home], it was nice because I finally had some peace and quiet for once in the house.” That said, Thomas explained, “It was just so difficult because we were back into our old long-distance relationship again.”

Thomas and Paula are still arguing over their apartment

Not much has budged in this department. Paula revealed that they still don’t have a couch in their apartment, despite her craving a more comfortable space. She joked, “I can’t take a picture in my apartment without someone thinking I’ve been kidnapped.”

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Catie called Thomas a man-child

After Thomas went into detail about his physical allergic reaction to perfume and other fragrances, with the rest of the cast defending Paula’s usage of perfume, he shared, “[Perfume] lowers my quality of life enough that I don’t want it in the apartment.” After that, Catie called Thomas a man-child. She explained, “He literally does have temper tantrums… I feel like [Thomas] has a lot of crazy standards.”

Thomas gave himself secret shares in Paula’s company

One of Paula’s biggest ties to Brazil is her piercing business. While she’s considering expanding the business to the U.S., Thomas dropped a bombshell: “Paula built her business from scratch in Brazil, but I did actually file for an LLC for her business in the U.S., and I did give myself 49% of the shares.” According to Paula, he did it without asking her.

“Even if I agree with 49%, I just wanted to be part of a conversation,” Paula told the group. “Part of me wants to send him to the hell, you know, because he’s so spoiled and I feel like it’s too much for me.” For that reason, she decided that when they get married in Brazil, she will be asking him to sign a prenup. She then revealed that she is opening a second piercing store in São Paolo, which Thomas did not know about. He asked, “You’re doubling down in Brazil?” Before sharing, “I don’t feel like she is putting any effort into our life in the U.S.”

Paula and Thomas are actively trying to have a baby

Like many of the other couples this season, Paula and Thomas are actively trying to have a baby. However, according to Paula, when they do start their family, she wants to move back to Brazil. Clearly, Thomas did not know about her moving plans. She told the cast, “My gender reveal, if I become pregnant, will be not like girl or boy; it will be Brazilian or American.”

Mido defended his proposal prank

Ahead of the Tell All, Marissa revealed during an interview with Swooon that the full cast had some “choice words” for Mido. Now, we know that her husband, Edward, called Mido an “a**hole” after Mido defended his proposal prank, which left Debby in tears at the time. As Josh put it, “I think you’re being too generous with the word surprise… You can have a really cute dog, but if it keeps surprising you by s**ting the carpet, you’re going to get rid of the dog.”

Doubling down on his proposal, in which he convinced Debby he was leaving the country, only to get down on one knee once she was crying, Mido explained, “If the time go back again, I will do that 100 million time again.” Defending her husband, Debby explained, “He has no true sense of what’s funny and what’s not funny.”

While the cast questioned if Mido was in America for “the right reasons,” Debby explained, “I can’t put together sacrificing his mother, his father, his family, his friends, his connections and everything that he has that he would have done all of that on a whim to get a job in Hollywood.”

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Mido wants to take Debby back to Egypt

According to Debby, it’s been an incredibly hard year for Mido, as he has not yet received his green card. This means he cannot have a job or drive. He even had to decline an acting role because he could not work. When asked if he would head back to Egypt after another year without a green card, Mido replied, “Of course. If [Debby] want to come, [she is] welcome in my home.” However, while Mido assumed Debby would not go with him, she said she would consider it.

Maxwell can’t get a spousal visa

According to Ashia, people from Nigeria are “banned” from obtaining spousal visas in the United States right now, even though K-1 visas are still available. For that reason, his immigration process has been halted.

Maxwell told Ashia when she can eat

Throughout the season, Ashia has made it clear that she tells Maxwell what to wear and how to improve his hygiene. Now, he’s revealed a request that he has for her physical appearance. After revealing that he wants her to get more “toned” by going to the gym, he explained, “I banned her from eating after 9:00 PM. Ashia looks good, you know? But then, ladies sometimes get carried away with what they eat, the way they live their life and all that.” Let’s just say the female members of the cast were not happy about that comment.

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Ashia and Maxwell are trying for a baby

When Ashia and Maxwell were joined by her Godbrother Rod, he revealed that he is still not thrilled by their relationship. That’s why he was so shocked to hear that Ashia and Maxwell are trying for a baby, even though they live on different continents. Ashia admitted, “I mean, we’re just exploring the idea because we don’t know how long this process is going to take.” According to Rod, this means that she is going to be a single parent.

Debby is questioning her long-term commitment to Mido

After Ashia and Maxwell said their piece, the Tell All concluded. As the cast packed up to leave, Debby got in one more shocker. She told cameras, “I don’t know if we’re in it for the long haul.” After that, Mido threatened to move back to Egypt one more time. “We agree to give us more time,” he confessed. “But I will be honest. If something happened [that made] me worse or feeling bad, I will return back.”

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